When your mind won't stop spinning with catastrophic thoughts about who you are and what happens next, you need more than positive thinking. This guide teaches the CONNECT grounding technique—a present moment awareness practice that stops overthinking by anchoring you in direct sensory experience. Not as a quick fix, but as a skill you can return to again and again during divorce, job loss, midlife crisis, or any major life transition where you've lost your sense of self.

Loss has a way of stripping away who you thought you were. When my marriage ended after almost 25 years, I didn't just lose a relationship—I lost the version of myself that existed in that relationship. When I was let go from the ministry leadership position I'd held for a decade, I didn't just lose a job—I lost the professional identity that had organized my days and defined my mission.

Major life changes can make you feel like you've lost yourself completely. When your job ends or your marriage falls apart, it feels like your identity disappears too. But here's the truth: your circumstances and your identity are different things. Learn what actually stays constant when everything else shifts.